Clean and pure. That is the ideal
society which Islam advocates. It is the society where the honour of
every daughter, sister and mother is given the highest degree of
respect. Hence even merely looking at a non-mahram woman (except by
accident) has also been denounced in Islam. Our beloved Nabi (Sallallahu
Alaihi Wasallam) is reported to have said that Allah Ta`ala said: “The
glance (at a non-mahram) is a poisonous arrow of Shaitaan. The one who
will restrain himself from it for My sake, I will grant him such Imaan
in reward, the sweetness of which he will taste in his heart.” This is the unparalleled respect and honour that Islam affords women.
In order to maintain the purity of
society, segregation of males and females has been strongly emphasised.
Women have been commanded to generally remain indoors. If they do
venture out for any genuine need, the Qur’aan has forbidden them from
displaying themselves and has commanded them to don a jilbaab (a loose
outer garment which conceals the body, commonly referred to as the
cloak). Since it is human nature that an attraction exists in both males
and females for the opposite gender, the jilbaab is meant to serve as a
distraction from the glances of men. While the jilbaab (cloak) would
completely conceal the beauty or figure of the person wearing it, due to
it being completely plain and simple nothing on the jilbaab itself
would invite any glance in its direction.
JUST TO SHOW OFF
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| Beautiful cloak is defeating the purpose! |
Alas, the jilbaab (cloak) which was
meant to be a means of concealment and a means of distracting the gaze
away from the one wearing it has now become a source of direct
attraction. An entire fashion industry has erupted around the cloak.
Branded cloaks have become the norm. Any brand name will do, even if it
means “No Name” (Bidoun Ism). If you cannot afford the genuine branded
item, you may pay a hundred riyaals to have the name “Sharqiyah”
embroidered on a cheaper cloak — just to show off. The brand label on
the matching scarf must also be clearly displayed. A cloak without
Swarovski crystals is not worth being called a cloak in many circles.
Often the amount spent on a single “designer” cloak which would be worn
on the odd occasion, is enough to feed a starving family for a few
months. What was supposed to be a loose outer covering has become a
figure revealing garment. The neck, which is part of the satr of a
woman, is completely revealed with the V-neck styles. While many women
feel very happy wearing such cloaks, the happiest is undoubtedly
Shaitaan. His constant effort is to strip people of hayaa (modesty and
shame). He would therefore be feeling ecstatic that he has succeeded in
transforming the cloak which was meant to turn gazes away from it, into
something that attracts glances towards to it.
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| Keep your beautiful cloak indoors and your plain one for outside! |
One crucial question remains: Is it
permissible to wear a fancy/designer/attractive cloak? Certainly! There
is no harm whatsoever in wearing it – provided that if one goes outdoors
due to any genuine need one wears a plain unattractive jilbaab over
it!!
Finally, let us sit up and take note of
the slide into immodesty and shamelessness and take concrete steps to
reverse the tide. May Allah Ta`ala grant us the reality of hayaa.
Aameen.
